To count children, other than the applicants, as household members, certified / auditable documentation should be provided proving guardianship and permanent residency in the home of the applicant. The Participating Lenders listed on the DPA Website are trained to know what documentation to request and review to determine household size, calculate income and assets in qualifying applicants for Mortgage Loans with Down Payment Assistance. I share custody of my children who reside with me periodically throughout the year. Can I count them as household members? To count children that are subject to shared custody of separated or divorced parents, a recorded copy of the final divorce decree and / or custody agreement should be provided certifying that the children reside in the applicant’s home for a minimum of 50% of the year.